• Boyfriend gone AWOL

    Boyfriend gone AWOL0

    Dear Gase, I have not seen my boyfriend for the past two weeks but we live and work a few minutes from each other in the same city, he only talks to me if am the one who called. He does not call or communicate. I have tried asking him if he still needs me in his life and he

  • Why do i attract wrong men?

    Why do i attract wrong men?0

    Dear Gase, I am a beautiful, intelligent, and hardworking woman in my late twenties but for some reason that I do not understand I am unlucky when it comes to a loving and stable relationship. I have a well-paying job and a four- year- old son that I’m raising by myself. I’ve had five failed love affairs in the last three

  • I belong to no man’s land

    I belong to no man’s land0

    Dear Gase It is with great pain and anger that I share my story with you. I am a young lady aged 27. My mother is a foreigner and my father is a Motswana. The thing is that I should have applied to be a citizen of Botswana at the age of 21 but I

  • My future father-in-law is uncooperative

    My future father-in-law is uncooperative2

    Hi Gase! My fiancee and I are planning to get married as soon as possible. We both live in the UK and our wish was to get married sometime between September and December this year, because that is when we shall get a chance to go home. My fiancee has long told his parents (who

  • Lesbian Fantasies

    Lesbian Fantasies0

    Hi aunty! I’m having a problem here; every time I masturbate I fantasize about having sex with another lady, and I enjoy watching adult movies where there are lesbians than just a man and a woman…but in reality, I don’t see myself kissing another lady. I always tell myself that some fantasies are best left

  • Baby daddy neglects his child

    Baby daddy neglects his child0

    Dear Gase Sis Gase, I have a son and his father got married last year December. I just heard about the marriage from someone; he never told me that he was getting married. The thing is I love him with all my heart. When I asked him why he had to marry without telling me

  • My wife cheats should i confront her?

    My wife cheats should i confront her?3

      Dear Gase…… I am a 42 years old man, married for the past 15 years. My wife and I have three children. I have recently discovered that my wife has been cheating on me for the past 2 years with 4 different male partners. So far I have not yet asked her about it

  • Her ex still following us

    Her ex still following us0

      Dear Gase, I am a guy of 25 years and in a relationship with a 28 year old lady. I do love her so much but the problem I am having is that she was previously in a hurtful relationship and her ex boyfriend is still following her. Now the girl has asked me

  • My girlfriend is insecure

    My girlfriend is insecure1

      Dear Gase, Gase, this has been going on for some time now and I think it’s going to destroy me if I don’t seek help! I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for two years now. It happened that she discovered that I was involved with someone while with her but I

  • My baby mom wants marriage

    My baby mom wants marriage0

      Dear Gase, I’m a man, aged 36 and have been with the mother of my children for over 10 years now. I love her so much and want to spend the rest of my life with her because she has borne me beautiful daughters whom I also love. The problem with the mother of

  • I love him, but he never calls me

    I love him, but he never calls me0

      Dear Gase…… I met this guy a month ago. He stays in Lerala and I stay in Gaborone. I saw him once after we exchanged numbers. I am the one who is always calling him. He never calls and when I ask him why he does not call he always says he is broke.

  • Girls love me

    Girls love me0

      Dear Gase…… Gase I have a problem. I am 16 years and have three girls after me; all of them are cute. I don’t know what to do because I feel am not doing justice to all of them. What should I do? Gase says,,,,,,, Do you seriously expect me to give you advice

  • My sister is jealous of me

    My sister is jealous of me0

      Dear Gase I am writing this to seek advice about my life. I stay with my son and my sister in a 2 ½ cottage. She is 24 years old and I’m 27. I’m not happy the way my sister treats me…like a piece of rubbish…just because she earns more than I do, and

  • I love my ex more than my boyfriend

    I love my ex more than my boyfriend18

      Dear Gase…. I’m a quiet and sensitive girl but sometimes I can get short-tempered. I have a boyfriend that I dated for about 10 months but he cheated on me with another girl. It was a long distance relationship so after I found out that he was cheating I was patient with him but

  • She disrespects me yet i love her so deeply

    She disrespects me yet i love her so deeply0

      Dear Gase… Gase, I’ve been married for six years now and so far my wife and I have two beautiful girls. In our marriage it’s smiles this week, the next it’s unhappiness and swearing. My wife is very, very bad tempered and she uses unbelievably bad language towards me whenever we have a discussion.

  • Resist the urge to accuse

    Resist the urge to accuse0

      I realize that when your calls go to voicemail your mind instantly wants to believe that s/he hasn’t answered because s/he is with someone else when in actuality this is probably far from the case. Maybe his/her phone died or s/he just happens to be in a low-service area. Regardless of the situation, accusing

  • I love her, but Feeling insecure

    I love her, but Feeling insecure0

      Dear Gase,, I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and four months. She’s 17 and I’m 19 but we’re both doing first year. I think I love her but we seem to be having more problems than sharing good times. She’s still friends with her ex and that bothers me.

  • Don’t check his/her phone

    Don’t check his/her phone0

      When you struggle with trusting your partner, getting into the habit of phone-checking is like nose-diving into quicksand. When you go snooping for things, you will find them. Checking your partner’s phone to make sure that there is nothing fishy going on is not exercising trust, it is simply enabling your distrusting ways.

  • Identify your biggest fear

    Identify your biggest fear0

      What is the absolute worse thing that can occur within your relationship? No, really think about it. In my experience, the struggle with trusting my significant other was always more mental and imaginative than anything else. Is your biggest fear that s/he will fall in love with someone else? That s/he’ll cheat? That s/he’ll

  • She gave me Syphilis and asked for forgiveness; should I take her back?

    She gave me Syphilis and asked for forgiveness; should I take her back?0

      Dear Gase, We’ve been in love for almost a year; we stayed together for two months then she found a job working as a vendor, renting a room on her own. We were seeing each other on weekends. Then, there was this week when I visited her at her place and we had unprotected


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