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ASK GASE 11.04.14

ASK GASE 11.04.14

Apr. 11 | HE DOESN’T WANT TO PUT A RING ON IT DEAR GASE, I’ve been living with my partner for nearly four years and he has been separated from his wife during that time. We are both working and have a child together. Generally our relationship is fine...

ASK GASE 04.03.2014

ASK GASE 04.03.2014

Apr. 4 | SHOULD I ASK MY BOYFRIEND FOR MONEY? DEAR GASE, I have been in a relationship with a guy for 10 months now. We both live in Francistown and I am a student at one of the secondary schools here. From my upbringing I was not taught to depend on a...

ASK GASE 28.03.2014

ASK GASE 28.03.2014

Mar. 28 | NO MONEY OR HELP IN RAISING THE KIDS DEAR GASE, My problem is that I have two children with the same man, but he does not help with the upbringing of the children. The reason he gives is that he is unemployed, yet I know he is involved in a small...

ASK GASE 21.03.2014

ASK GASE 21.03.2014

Mar. 21 | I’M SO HURT THAT I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR MY MAN DEAR GASE, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years and he treats me and my children very well. And even though I work, he still provides for most things. Then a few months ago I found out...

ASK GASE 14.03.14

ASK GASE 14.03.14

Mar. 14 | HOW DO I CONVINCE HER SHE WON’T BE DUMPED? DEAR GASE, I have met this lady – she is 33 and I am 28. She has an 11-year-old daughter and the father visits, but only to sit for 20 minutes. The foundation of love between us is good and we love each...

ASK GASE 07.03.14

ASK GASE 07.03.14

Mar. 7 | HE’S A NICE GUY BUT I DON’T LOVE HIM SEXUALLY  DEAR GASE, I’m with a man who is quite a lot older than I am – I’m 26 and he is 42. He really is a great guy and we have a lovely three-year-old daughter. He also has four children from previous...

ASK GASE 28.02.14

ASK GASE 28.02.14

Feb. 28 | MY NEW MAN FRIEND WANTS TO GET CLOSER DEAR GASE, I am an unmarried 34-year-old lady with a five-year-old son. The father to my son has long promised marriage but has never taken any step to make this a reality. We don’t live together as he is working...

ASK GASE 21.02.14

ASK GASE 21.02.14

Feb. 21 | I NEED A THERAPIST DEAR GASE, I am a 21-year-old lady in need of therapy because I have a problem managing my anger, and have constant arguments with my boyfriend. Can you please recommend a therapist? Even a private one is still fine. GASE SAYS.. You...

ASK GASE 07/02/14

ASK GASE 07/02/14

Feb. 7 | VIOLENCE IN THE HOME HAS AFFECTED MY SON DEAR GASE, Last week I had a violent domestic row with my partner of six years. Regrettably this was in front of our six-year-old son. He was understandably traumatized by the incident especially as the police...

ASK GASE 31.01.14

ASK GASE 31.01.14

Jan. 31 | MY GIRLFRIEND DOESN’T CARE ABOUT HER FAMILY DEAR GASE, I’m a 29-year-old guy in a relationship with a lady of 25. I’m no longer interested in her and I’ve told her honestly, giving her the reasons why. Firstly, when we met I found out...

ASK GASE 24.01.14

ASK GASE 24.01.14

Jan. 24 | HE DOESN’T SATISFY OR CARE ABOUT ME DEAR GASE, Gase my relationship is a mess. My boyfriend never listens to me when I tell him that I am not sexually satisfied. All he does is put his penis in me then within a minute ejaculates. I don’t love...

ASK GASE 17.01.13

ASK GASE 17.01.13

Jan. 17 | MY GIRLFRIEND DUMPED ME BUT I WANT CUSTODY OF OUR DAUGHTER DEAR GASE, I’m a young man aged 25 and I have been dating a young lady of the same age since last year. I love her so much and even promised to marry her. She got pregnant but after two...

ASK GASE 20.12.13

ASK GASE 20.12.13

Dec. 20 | HE OFTEN ABUSES ME WHEN HE GETS DRUNK DEAR GASE, I have been in a relationship with the father of my child for over four years and we are currently staying together at his home, but my relationship with him is so complicated. He abuses me physically and...

ASK GASE 13.12.13

ASK GASE 13.12.13

Dec. 13 | CHEATING GIRLFRIEND HAS LEFT ME ANGRY, HOPELESS AND DEPRESSED DEAR GASE, I used to be in a relationship whereby my girlfriend was staying far away from me. The last time we met at my home village she told me that she was two months pregnant. Initially...

ASK GASE 22.11.13

ASK GASE 22.11.13

Nov. 22 | MY HUSBAND HAD AN AFFAIR WITH A WOMAN HE EMPLOYS DEAR GASE, After more than 30 years of marriage I have been told that my husband has had an affair with a woman who is employed by him. The relationship ended some months ago, but I recently received information...

ASK GASE 15.11.13

ASK GASE 15.11.13

Nov. 15 | I DON’T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH MY HUSBAND’S VIOLENCE DEAR GASE, I have two children with my former partner and my husband also has two children with his ex. We have been together for five years and he is a very controlling man to the point where I’m...

ASK GASE 01.11.2013

ASK GASE 01.11.2013

Nov. 1 | MY 11-YEAR RELATIONSHIP HAS COME TO A BAD END Dear Gase, I have recently decided to end an 11-year-old relationship with my ex because he was cheating on me. We were happy together until last year when he started having an affair. Five years ago I sold...

ASK GASE 25.10.13

ASK GASE 25.10.13

Oct. 25 | I’M A VIRGIN AND JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE DEAR GASE, I am a university student and a virgin at the age of 22. Good girls always turn me down – I now feel like I won’t be able to marry in the future. I tried it with the church but still nothing...

ASK GASE 18.10.13

ASK GASE 18.10.13

Oct. 18 | SHOULD I TELL MY MUM THAT DAD IS CHEATING? DEAR GASE, I have never been close to my dad since he and my mum separated. At the time I was only eight, so I don’t remember much about it. By the time I was ten, my parents reconciled and my dad was back...

ASK GASE 11.10.13

ASK GASE 11.10.13

Oct. 11 | CAUGHT IN THE OLD MAN YOUNG GIRL SYNDROME DEAR GASE, I’m a 64-year-old white man who has fallen in love with a 22-year-old Motswana woman. And whilst age may be nothing but a number, and colour nothing more than the pigmentation of the skin, the reality...