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ASK GASE 11.04.14

ASK GASE 11.04.14

Apr. 11 | HE DOESN’T WANT TO PUT A RING ON IT DEAR GASE, I’ve been living with my partner for nearly four years and he has been separated from his wife during that time. We are both working and have a child together. Generally our relationship is fine...

ASK GASE 04.03.2014

ASK GASE 04.03.2014

Apr. 4 | SHOULD I ASK MY BOYFRIEND FOR MONEY? DEAR GASE, I have been in a relationship with a guy for 10 months now. We both live in Francistown and I am a student at one of the secondary schools here. From my upbringing I was not taught to depend on a...

ASK GASE 28.03.2014

ASK GASE 28.03.2014

Mar. 28 | NO MONEY OR HELP IN RAISING THE KIDS DEAR GASE, My problem is that I have two children with the same man, but he does not help with the upbringing of the children. The reason he gives is that he is unemployed, yet I know he is involved in a small...

ASK GASE 21.03.2014

ASK GASE 21.03.2014

Mar. 21 | I’M SO HURT THAT I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR MY MAN DEAR GASE, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years and he treats me and my children very well. And even though I work, he still provides for most things. Then a few months ago I found out...

ASK GASE 14.03.14

ASK GASE 14.03.14

Mar. 14 | HOW DO I CONVINCE HER SHE WON’T BE DUMPED? DEAR GASE, I have met this lady – she is 33 and I am 28. She has an 11-year-old daughter and the father visits, but only to sit for 20 minutes. The foundation of love between us is good and we love each...

ASK GASE 31.05.13

ASK GASE 31.05.13

May. 31 | I’M TOTALLY ADDICTED TO LOOKING AT PORN DEAR GASE, I don’t know where to start but I’m a guy who is 25 and prone to all kinds of addiction though I’m at the moment five months sober of alcohol and marijuana. The only thing that I can’t...

ASK GASE 26.04.13

ASK GASE 26.04.13

Apr. 29 | MY WOMAN IS A CHEAT BUT I CAN’T LET HER GO DEAR GASE, I have lost trust in this person I have shared my life with. I found my girlfriend on a date during working hours with some guy next to her work place. I had passed the place by chance and decided...

ASK GASE 19.04.13

ASK GASE 19.04.13

Apr. 19 | MY FRIEND HAS BEEN SECRETLY ‘COUNSELLING’ MY GIRLFRIEND Dear Gase I’m a young man aged 25 and my girlfriend is 20. We have been together for three years. Right now we have a problem because I came across some text messages on her phone, sent by...

ASK GASE 05.04.13

ASK GASE 05.04.13

Apr. 5 | THEY BLAME ME FOR THE DIVORCE DEAR GASE, Growing up I was raised by my uncle and mum, so I got used to calling my uncle dad…such that I ended up taking his surname. At that time, I thought the guy my sisters and brother always visited was my dad,...

ASK GASE 08.03.13

ASK GASE 08.03.13

Mar. 8 | I CHEATED ON MY FIANCÉE AND DON’T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HIM Dear Gase, I am a 24-year-old lady who is engaged to be married. My boyfriend moved away so I hardly see him. My problem is that a week ago I slept with another guy. Now I am torn between...

ASK GASE – 01.03.13

ASK GASE – 01.03.13

Mar. 1 | I’M CALLING OFF THE WEDDING DEAR GASE I’m calling off my wedding because I found out that my fiancé is not the man I thought he was. I thank God that he has been delaying the whole process, starting with lobola. First he lied about his children,...

ASKE GASE 22.02.13

ASKE GASE 22.02.13

Feb. 22 | I REALLY LOVE MY MAN BUT I’VE BEEN CHEATING  Dear Gase, I’m a 24-year-old lady and I have been dating this guy for 5 years now. My problem is that I have been cheating on him since last year because most of the time he is away on work-trips. The...

ASK GASE 15/02/13

ASK GASE 15/02/13

Feb. 15 | HE DOESN’T WANT TO PROVIDE FOR HIS DAUGHTER Sis Gase I’m writing to you with a sore heart and I really don’t know what to do. My ex and I have a 9- year-0 old daughter. He started staying with the child while we were still together but...

ASK GASE 08.02.13

ASK GASE 08.02.13

Feb. 8 | FIGHTING TO GET MY DAUGHTER BACK DEAR GASE Hi. I wrote to you last year seeking help to get my daughter back. brought her up since she was a baby but when she was 22 months old my ex-girlfriend came to my home when I was at work and took the baby away. She...

ASK GASE 01.02.2013

ASK GASE 01.02.2013

Feb. 1 | MY HUSBAND TO BE HAS DESERTED THE CHILDREN Dear Gase, I was engaged to be married last November to my live-in fiancé and father of our two children aged seven and five. Bogadi had been paid and a date set at the District Commissioner’s office when...

ASK GASE 18.01.2013

ASK GASE 18.01.2013

Jan. 18 |  PROPERTY GRABBING WIFE Dear Gase, I got married in December 2010 and in July 2011 my wife left me because I was not working and went back to her parents’ place. There were some fights when I asked her to come back home. She then reported me to the...

ASK GASE 11.01.13

ASK GASE 11.01.13

Jan. 11 | HE NEVER TELLS ME HE LOVES ME DEAR GASE I’m a young lady aged 22 and have been seeing a guy for almost a year and a half now. I love this guy so much and never for once has he told me he loves me. This breaks my heart so much and I don’t know what...

ASK GASE 19.10.12

ASK GASE 19.10.12

Oct. 19 | My appetite for masturbation is worrying Dear Gase, I am a university student aged 20. I have a strong appetite for masturbation and I do it almost three times per day. Watching porn and seeing women in revealing outfits or wearing clothes that expose...

ASK GASE 09/10/12

ASK GASE 09/10/12

Oct. 6 | I’M AFRAID HE MIGHT RESURFACE TO CLAIM HIS CHILD AND STOP MY WEDDING Dear Gase The father of my child disappeared when I was pregnant with our child four years ago, we have not heard or seen him since then. I tried in vain to look for him and even...

ASK GASE  28/09/12

ASK GASE 28/09/12

Sep. 28 | He’s sleeping with both of  us under the same roof Dear Gase, I am a lady of 29 years involved with a man of 35. We live together and have two kids. I have another child from my previous relationship and he also has a child. We have been together...