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ASK GASE 26.04.13
Apr. 29 | MY WOMAN IS A CHEAT BUT I CAN’T LET HER GO DEAR GASE, I have lost trust in this person I have shared my life with. I found my girlfriend on a date during working hours with some guy next to her work place. I had passed the place by chance and...
ASK GASE 19.04.13
Apr. 19 | MY FRIEND HAS BEEN SECRETLY ‘COUNSELLING’ MY GIRLFRIEND Dear Gase I’m a young man aged 25 and my girlfriend is 20. We have been together for three years. Right now we have a problem because I came across some text messages on her phone,...
ASK GASE 05.04.13
Apr. 5 | THEY BLAME ME FOR THE DIVORCE DEAR GASE, Growing up I was raised by my uncle and mum, so I got used to calling my uncle dad…such that I ended up taking his surname. At that time, I thought the guy my sisters and brother always visited was...
ASK GASE 08.03.13
Mar. 8 | I CHEATED ON MY FIANCÉE AND DON’T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HIM Dear Gase, I am a 24-year-old lady who is engaged to be married. My boyfriend moved away so I hardly see him. My problem is that a week ago I slept with another guy. Now I am torn between...
ASK GASE – 01.03.13
Mar. 1 | I’M CALLING OFF THE WEDDING DEAR GASE I’m calling off my wedding because I found out that my fiancé is not the man I thought he was. I thank God that he has been delaying the whole process, starting with lobola. First he lied about his children,...
ASKE GASE 22.02.13
Feb. 22 | I REALLY LOVE MY MAN BUT I’VE BEEN CHEATING Dear Gase, I’m a 24-year-old lady and I have been dating this guy for 5 years now. My problem is that I have been cheating on him since last year because most of the time he is away on work-trips. The...
ASK GASE 15/02/13
Feb. 15 | HE DOESN’T WANT TO PROVIDE FOR HIS DAUGHTER Sis Gase I’m writing to you with a sore heart and I really don’t know what to do. My ex and I have a 9- year-0 old daughter. He started staying with the child while we were still together but...
ASK GASE 08.02.13
Feb. 8 | FIGHTING TO GET MY DAUGHTER BACK DEAR GASE Hi. I wrote to you last year seeking help to get my daughter back. brought her up since she was a baby but when she was 22 months old my ex-girlfriend came to my home when I was at work and took the baby away. She...
ASK GASE 01.02.2013
Feb. 1 | MY HUSBAND TO BE HAS DESERTED THE CHILDREN Dear Gase, I was engaged to be married last November to my live-in fiancé and father of our two children aged seven and five. Bogadi had been paid and a date set at the District Commissioner’s office when...
ASK GASE 18.01.2013
Jan. 18 | PROPERTY GRABBING WIFE Dear Gase, I got married in December 2010 and in July 2011 my wife left me because I was not working and went back to her parents’ place. There were some fights when I asked her to come back home. She then reported me to the...
ASK GASE 11.01.13
Jan. 11 | HE NEVER TELLS ME HE LOVES ME DEAR GASE I’m a young lady aged 22 and have been seeing a guy for almost a year and a half now. I love this guy so much and never for once has he told me he loves me. This breaks my heart so much and I don’t know what...
ASK GASE 19.10.12
Oct. 19 | My appetite for masturbation is worrying Dear Gase, I am a university student aged 20. I have a strong appetite for masturbation and I do it almost three times per day. Watching porn and seeing women in revealing outfits or wearing clothes that expose...
ASK GASE 09/10/12
Oct. 6 | I’M AFRAID HE MIGHT RESURFACE TO CLAIM HIS CHILD AND STOP MY WEDDING Dear Gase The father of my child disappeared when I was pregnant with our child four years ago, we have not heard or seen him since then. I tried in vain to look for him and even...
ASK GASE 28/09/12
Sep. 28 | He’s sleeping with both of us under the same roof Dear Gase, I am a lady of 29 years involved with a man of 35. We live together and have two kids. I have another child from my previous relationship and he also has a child. We have been together...
ASK GASE 21.09.2012
Sep. 21 | Dear Gase, I want to know if it is okay for a man to have only one round during sexual intercourse? I think I may have a problem since I seem to feel tired from just one round. What could be the cause for my poor performance?The second question is that...
ASK GASE 07.09.2012
Sep. 7 | My child’s father plans to marry another woman Dear Gase, I’m 19 and in love with a guy who is seven years older than me. I thought he was the right person…so loving, so understanding. He offered me a shoulder to lean on and was very protective...
BOYFRIEND HAS A DRINKING PROBLEM
Aug. 24 | Dear Gase, The situation with my boyfriend is getting worse – now he doesn’t want to spend time with me. I think he has developed a drinking problem, and it is really destroying us. He comes back home around 2am most of the time (even during...
LEFT WITHOUT AN EXPLANATION
Aug. 17 | Hey mme Gase, I’m not feeling too good. My ex (the mother of my child) broke up with me three weeks ago. She just sent me a text message telling me that its over between us. What the problem was, I have no idea. When I ask her she says she and I are...
MY WIFE IS AN AGGRESSIVE, GREEDY BULLY!
Aug. 10 | I would like you guys to help me there as you always do…I am having a marital problem with my wife who is a bully, aggressive and greedy. She can’t even perform duties like a lady has to; what she wants from me is money…can you help me to...
