I SUSPECT MY BOYFRIEND’S ASSOCIATION WITH CO-WORKER
My guy works in a bank and is very friendly with his female work colleagues.
He spends a lot of time at the bank often working late at night and sometimes at weekends.
He often gets calls from these females and when I ask about it he just says, “It is work.”
I have my suspicions that he might be more than just good friends with one of them whose name comes up quite often.
What should I do to find out the truth?
If you find yourself questioning the extent of their relationship no matter how often he reassures you that everything is strictly work related, you need to be sure for your own peace of mind especially if something about this woman reads ‘relationship wrecker.’
Although it might sound like you’re being negative, most likely, your female intuition is right and your fears justified.
But if you who still have doubts, here are a few signs that their relationship isn’t just so friendly.
SHE CALLS LATE AT NIGHT
It’s 12 a.m. and you’re lying in your man’s arms, watching a late night movie.
You ask whose calling at this hour and you discover it to be none other than his lady friend at the bank.
If she’s calling at inappropriate times of the night, and it occurs on a regular basis, it’s safe to say that she’s looking for more than just innocent talk time about work related topics.
THEY HAD A PAST RELATIONSHIP/SEXUAL PAST
Not saying it’s impossible, but for most of us, it’s hard to be just friends with someone we’ve shared our bodies with.
Especially if we loved the man and were in a serious relationship with him that lasted for more than just a couple of months.
If a woman is still hanging around a man she was involved with sexually, romantically, or both, it’s safe to say she’s waiting for a chance to rekindle that bond—if she hasn’t already.
YOUR MAN IS UNCOMFORTABLE BEING AROUND THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER
If he’s nervous, starts get unusually animated and starts sweating when the two of you are together, your man has something to hide.
And with you two together, the chances increase for you to catch on to whatever it is that is making him so nervous. Either that or he’s guilty.
SHE’S ANGRY, ANNOYED OR UNCOMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENCE
Whenever you’re around, you catch her eyes rolling, neck snapping and mouth twisting every time she looks your way.
If this happens grab his arm, or intertwine your fingers with his girlfriend will not liker it!
Any woman who does not like the sight of you and your man together obviously has more than “we’re just good friends” feelings.
But if your man backs away from a cuddle in her presence, that is another sign that all is not as it should be.