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HAIR RAISING: Motlhoki’s burnt scalp

HAIR RAISING: Motlhoki’s burnt scalp

*Maimed woman pleads with police to find ex- lover in SA

*Demands P1m compensation from the elusive abuser

A devastated Ramotswa woman who survived third degree burns inflicted by a jealous lover has found herself broke, heartbroken and desperate for justice 10 years later.

Neo Pearl Motlhoki who had decided not to prosecute Ontiretse Johannes for attempted murder because he had showed remorse and vowed to be loyal to her forever recently reported him to the police because the man had broken his vow.

The 40- year -old mother of three got a slap in the face which awakened her to the reality that she had forgiven a monster when she recently learnt that despite his promise of loyalty and financial support, Johannes, 46, had secretly married another woman in the same village under her nose.

“ I want him to pay P1million for damages caused and then rot in jail for what he did to me.

SORRY SIGHT: Motlhoki’s belly

SORRY SIGHT: Motlhoki’s belly

No man wants to look at me and some people pass snide remarks about my looks. He did this deliberately so that I don’t get any attention from other men. He cannot just leave me and marry another woman and hope to get away with it,” she said fighting back tears.

Determined to make Johannes face the full weight of the law Motlhoki recently pleaded passionately with the police to hunt him down where he is hiding in SA and bring him back to Botswana to charge him with attempted murder.

“The matter was never reported in South Africa where it happened, but I hope that the police here will help me.

He can run from the police to South Africa but he surely can’t hide forever.

I will not rest until he is charged, prosecuted, convicted and locked up. ” She said.

Narrating the gruesome details of the horrific incident that disfigured her once pretty face forever, the distressed woman said that on that day Johannes had told her that he was returning a food container that he had borrowed from a friend.

“At around 2pm on my way to the shops I saw him at a nearby tuck shop.

I WANT JUSTICE: Motlhoki

I WANT JUSTICE:
Motlhoki

He called me and we sat together chatting until around 10pm when we went back to the house but while I was cooking without an argument he kicked me from behind and before I knew it he had doused me with paraffin and when I opened my eyes he was holding a burning plastic bag over my head.

I don’t know what happened after that.”

When she regained consciousness she was on a hospital bed and Johannes was sitting next to her.

“He was lying to people that it was an accident and asking for forgiveness from me.”

The couple later relocated to Ramotswa where they stayed together until recently when Johannes abandoned Motlhoki and their three children.

“On the day that he left he told us that he was going to fuel the car and never came back.

I reported him at the magistrates court and he was ordered to pay P250 a month for each child but he dissapeared into South Africa soon after that.”

Meanwhie the social services in Ramotswa helped Motlhoki to start a backyard garden as a poverty eradication measure but the plan backfired as she ended up with a P4 389.00 water bill and her water supply cut off.

“The social workers advised me to join Ipelegeng but I quit as the working conditions were a hazard to my already fragile health.

What I want is for the police to catch Johannes bring him back to Botswana and have him pay me P1 million and then have him face prosecution,”She said.


Mrs-Motlhoki

Mrs-Motlhoki

16 Responses to “BRING BACK THE MAN WHO DID THIS TO ME”

  1. ditso 2013/02/23

    Mo go botlhoko thata batho mme yo o bata thuso

  2. martha.ditsebe 2013/02/25

    O setlhogo mo go maswe monna ke wena….

  3. Shahid Nkala 2013/02/25

    Some people are evil! How dare He?

  4. This is indeed very sad. Looking at it from our comfortable lives we may say why did she not report her, its her own fault. But abusers start by killing your ego and then tyhe abuse is simply. No woman is resistant from it. This is a wake up call for all the women lets speak out, stop protecting these offenders because we help them continue the chain of abuse. No woman deserves this kind of treatment.Such men are a disgrace to the male genration and they belong in prison, they cant live with human beings. Their deeds are simply inhuman

  5. cheerful 2013/02/25

    “A devastated Ramotswa woman who survived third degree burns inflicted by a jealous lover has found herself broke, heartbroken and desperate for justice 10 years later.”
    SHOCKING SHOCKING AND UNACCEPTABLE perhaps because she lives in poverty so justice would not have been swift for her as oppossed to if it happened to someone who is WELL OFF (???)
    IF YOU CAN ASSIST PLEASE PICK UP THE PHONE OR VISIT THE REPORTER WHO WROTE THE ARTICLE
    THE LADY HAS ENDED UP WITH A WATER BILL OF P4 389 BILL SOME ORGANISATION SHOULD PAY THIS BILL OR THE BILL SHOULD BE WRITTEN OFF

    She would probably need some medical attention e.g skin graft in a neighbouring country if is not available locally

    PICK UP THE PHONE URGENTLY OR VISIT THE VOICE IF ANY INDIVIDUAL OR ORGANISATION CAN ASSIST THE FAMILY

    one questions if people ( i ams saying this because it also happens to men) at this lady’s level are being educated about domestic abuse and how to report it and where to get assistance?????
    There is no comment ffrom the Social Services Department on how they plan to assist the lady and her family????

  6. cheerful 2013/02/25

    That …….. who did this to the lady is probably abusing another woman wherever he is

  7. cheerful 2013/02/25

    No one should wait for 10 SOLID years for justice when something like this has occurred – If the lady in question did not have the WILLPOWER to report that ….., because that is what happens to people who are abused they become powerless AND JUST GO BACK FOR MORE ABUSE, SOMEONE SHOULD HAVE DONE IT ON HER BEHALF

  8. cheerful 2013/02/26

    Someone in authority should be making sure the lady’s water supply is rec-connected

    Some people pass snide remarks about my looks- THIS IS VERY VERY VERY UNACCEPTABLE THEY SHOULD BE ASSISTING THE LADY E.G. TRYING TO GET ASSISTANCE FOR HER NOT PASSING SNIDE REMARKS.

    There is no mention of the Lady’s relatives WHERE ARE THEY????

  9. cheerful 2013/02/26

    To those have have passed Snide remarks to the lady – can you please use your energy in doing positive things for the lady and her family instead of passing snide remarks

  10. cheerful 2013/02/27

    Anyone who can assist the Lady with Legal assistance, Please do come forward

    TO the Lady you are courageous and this article will hopefull encourage those who suffer from Domestic Violence to speak up

    Children who witness domestic violence in their homes you too should speak up

  11. cheerful 2013/03/04

    ““On the day that he left he told us that he was going to fuel the car and never came back.”
    An organisation dealing with gender violence should be seen to be working hand in hand with the social workers;

    1. The lady needs access to a Lawyer
    if the.. has absconded is he paying maintenance or Not for the children? If not the maintenance has to be backdated from the time he walked out

    2, The lady needs medical attention

    3. At the moment the family are struggling to make ends meet- something has to be done for them until such a time when the Lady is well enough but before that, when she is well, she will need to be empowered to take care of her family

  12. cheerful 2013/03/04

    Bring him back to face the music

  13. Carefokon 2013/03/06

    Ao shems this so horrible le wena Motlhoki how dare u hide this from legal enforcement go kabe go dirilwe sengwe ka the pepetrator

  14. cheerful 2013/03/06

    Doubt wether the lady hid this intentionally from the authorities. Will share this with you now because this is what i have observed.
    know someone who is suffering from domestic violence- was happy they found the courage to speak to me about about it- just received a text one late evening how miserable the personA was and they had noonelse to turn to- then as the days went on the personA was letting out more and crying at times about what personB was doing to them,
    Tried to signpost them to an organisation that deals with domestic violence or to phone the law enforcement people but personA was afraid)- personA was making up all sorts of excuses-one must realise people who suffer this form of violenc lose their confidence)- so found another way to boost personA’s confidence- by getting them to do a course- observing a slightly different person in personA

  15. cheerful 2013/03/06

    Point am trying to put across is that there is a possibility the lady could not find anyone to confide in .

    It easy for one to say “How dare you hide this from the legal enforcement” when one has never suffered from domestic violence-dont ever say that what you should be doing is giving her some encouragement to rebuild her life again it does not happen overnight

  16. cheerful 2013/03/06

    ““Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.”-Confucious!

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